Reference-based metrics remain the standard choice in machine translation evaluation, partly because quality estimation methods often correlate less well with human judgments. As a result, source-free, reference-based evaluation has become the practical norm, even though it is unfaithful to the definition of translation adequacy and unfair to systems whose outputs preserve the source meaning while differing from the reference. This paper argues that adequacy must be judged with respect to the source. A reference is only one possible rendering of the source and may introduce bias, under-specification, or errors. We further argue that source-reference-hypothesis evaluation is fair only when the judge treats the reference as auxiliary evidence rather than as the primary standard. Otherwise, even source-aware evaluation can reduce adequacy to preference towards reference. We show the existing hybrid metrics are highly reliant on reference compared to source. Our argument is not that all automatic MT metrics fail to use the source. Rather, we argue that any evaluation protocol that removes the source, or allows the reference to dominate the source, is structurally incomplete for adequacy evaluation. However, existing MT papers generally prefer reference-based metrics and use QE metrics only when reference is unavailable. We therefore call for QE to be reframed as a primary approach to source-grounded adequacy evaluation, rather than as a fallback motivated by missing references. We further call for hybrid metrics whose designs explicitly prioritize source--hypothesis faithfulness while using references only as complementary evidence.